So many people ask me how I feel about my husband’s choices. They ask if I’m ever trying to pull him back from his dreams or if rather, I’m in agreement with him and running right along side him. My answer, I’m running right along side him and support him 100%!
I love my husband and his big dreams!
“But why,” you might ask? “Isn’t the ride just a bit too crazy for you?”
The ride, yes, at times it can be crazy. However, that craziness is what makes our life fun and exciting. Never is there a dull moment being married to him.
For those of you who don’t know my husband…
He doesn’t like being just a ‘normal’ person.
He questions everything.
Getting out of his comfort zone while walking in his strength zone has become his normal.
Developing himself is a priority.
He loves facing reality in it’s face.
He thrives off of creating vision and running after it.
Behind the Scenes
Like I said, most people think my husband is absolutely crazy in what he does. Me, I love my husband and all his craziness.
First off, I love that he doesn’t like normal. He is always pushing for more in life and doesn’t settle for less. Personal development is a high priority for his daily activities whether its spiritually, mentally, financially, or physically.
And the risk people so often thinks he takes in purchasing a property, from our perspective, is no risk at all. My husband has so much wisdom financially (more than any other person I know). So all those financial investments he makes are actually no risk at all because of all the wisdom and knowledge he puts into action.
Constantly Moving
Most ladies have a hard time relating to me in the fact that I love change and love moving around. People tend to question if I have any say in whether I want to move again or not. The truth is, most people have no idea what goes on behind the scenes in our office. I do have a say. And my say, is usually what pushes him on to make the next move towards a property. I love my husband in the fact that he respects my opinion and couldn’t move forward without my support.
We both are huge fans of change. Which comes to the conclusion as to why we keep on moving to the next commercial property. And yes, we will most likely be moving down the road again, maybe one, three, five years from now. House hacking has become our reality. Aka… to live for free within your rental properties.
Meeting new people, developing new relationships, and seeing what we can offer to a new group of people drives us both into our giftings. Finding those new people and seeing what we can provide or receive from others sparks more energy and life inside us both.
I Support My husband
So, to answer you all’s question again, yes, I love my husband and his big dreams. I’m supporting him right along the way. I feel very blessed to have a man by my side that does not settle for normal, but instead, has a drive to keep on pushing with life spiritually, physically, and mentally.
This is my husband and I’m proud to be his supporter and his wife!
What are unique ways in how you support your husband and his dreams? Share them in the comments, I’d love to hear!
Marilyn says
Your husband is blessed to have such a supportive wife. You are an encouragement to me.
deniserenae says
Thank you so much, Marilyn. That right there encouraged me!
Susana says
Thank you for posting this. My husband is very much like yours but I have to admit I was not as supportive as he needed me to be. Our journey was a little bit more complicated with my mother in law on board… we don’t get along as I would’ve liked… so all this time I have been begging my husband to finish our journey and move by ourselves. He has been patient and loving with me and our sons… but it’s been so difficult for me emotionally living with his mother… so what I want to say is that I do feel proud of him for all the sacrifices and efforts he has made but at the same time I feel like I have no authority to say that since my support came along with nagging… I would love to make it right and make him feel valued! Thank you for posting this!
deniserenae says
Thanks Susana for your honesty. It can be hard when there are other dynamics involved and other people other than just you and your husband. We all need a reminder and more grace to deal with the people we see and are around on a daily basis.